Sharing even the last mouthful
Today, share one small thing before you enjoy it yourself.
- Read · about 2 minutes
“Mendicants, if sentient beings only knew, as I do, the fruit of giving and sharing, they would not eat without first giving, and the stain of stinginess would not occupy their minds.They would not eat without sharing even their last mouthful, their last morsel, so long as there was someone to receive it.Iti 26 · “Giving” · tr. Bhikkhu Sujato (CC0)
From the text
The passage says that if beings knew the fruit of giving and sharing as the speaker does, they would not eat without first giving, and stinginess would not occupy their minds. They would share even their last mouthful, as long as someone was there to receive it.
In everyday life
This is the first day of a week on giving, and the passage starts with something as ordinary as a meal. It does not tell you how much to give or to whom. It describes a person whose habit is to share before eating, and it names what gets in the way: a stain of stinginess. One way to recognise that stain is as a small tightening that says 'mine first'. You can feel that tightening in a queue, over a last biscuit, or when someone asks for a minute of your time. Giving here is not a duty or a payment; the text simply says the giver would act differently if they knew what sharing does. Today's sit is only about arriving and settling, so there is nothing to give during it except your attention to the breath. Afterwards, look for one small chance to offer something first. Time, a seat, or a share of a snack all count.
- Sit · 3, 5 or 10 minutes
Arriving and Settling
Sit upright on a chair or cushion, hands resting in your lap. Read each cue as it appears; between cues you may close your eyes or lower your gaze.
- Live · during your day
Before you eat or enjoy something today, offer a share, a seat, or a few minutes to someone nearby, without waiting to be asked.
- Reflect · this evening
Where did you notice the tightening of 'mine first' today, and what happened next?
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