Praise and blame pass through

Today, when praise or blame arrives, notice it, and notice it passing.

  1. Read · about 2 minutes
    Gain and loss, fame and disgrace,blame and praise, and pleasure and pain.These qualities among mankind are impermanent,transient, and perishable.An intelligent and mindful person knows these things,seeing that they’re perishable.Desirable things don’t disturb their mind,nor are they repelled by the undesirable.AN 8.6 · The eight worldly conditions · “Worldly Conditions (2nd)” · tr. Bhikkhu Sujato (CC0)

    From the text

    The verse names eight worldly conditions in four pairs: gain and loss, fame and disgrace, blame and praise, pleasure and pain. It says these are impermanent and perishable, and that a mindful person who sees this is not disturbed by the desirable ones or repelled by the undesirable ones.

    In everyday life

    Nobody escapes these eight. In a single day you can be thanked, ignored, criticized, paid, overcharged, comfortable, and then suddenly not. The verse does not suggest you can arrange your life so that only the pleasant four arrive. It says something more workable: all eight are passing, and a person who really sees that is not thrown about by them. Notice that the text pairs each condition with its opposite. Praise and blame are listed together, and one way to take that is that they are the same kind of thing, a passing weather of other people's opinions. On that reading, the aim is not to feel nothing, but to feel it without being swept off your feet. Today's sit is about arriving and finding your seat, literally; a steady posture is a good teacher for this. Then, through the day, watch for the moment one of the eight lands, and see how long the ripple actually lasts.

  2. Sit · 3, 5 or 10 minutes

    Arriving and Settling

    Sit upright on a chair or cushion, hands resting in your lap. Read each cue as it appears; between cues you may close your eyes or lower your gaze.

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  3. Live · during your day

    The next time someone praises or criticizes you today, notice the first flicker in your body, then check again a minute later to see what remains.

  4. Reflect · this evening

    Which of the eight visited you today, and how long did its effect really last?

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